Humans see new things and stuff from his/her birth and learn new meanings of life every day. Especially, in teenage asininity and emotions are on the peak. Mostly teenagers can’t understand the circumstances in the right direction, and they fall down in some negligence. They are not really responsible or guilty for such issues in teenage, but apparently they seem like “criminals” in the sight of society. Although “lack of guidance” is a major factor in such cases.
Children are not masters to understand their surrounding and environment at all and they are not always aware of mishaps in the early adulthood. It’s the duty of elders to guide them and take care of them, if they find children involved in evil things they should deal it with love and kindness. Elders should build their trust on children. In fact children require the help or affection from some elder brother/sister, parents or teachers.
But it is a usual thing that children are commonly judged by their elders without understanding of their emotions and feelings. They go through different kinds of hard experiences and mental tests in the name of discipline. They get the nightmare of punishment since childhood so in the teenage they have two choices, either to be agitators or to be victim of psychological issues.
They can be dealt with patience and love but the news of their “wickedness” goes far away in the society to make them ashamed everywhere. It’s a wrong way to deal with them, especially in front of their peers and family friends. Sometimes a great artist triggers out to be destroyed by the criticism of their “well-wishers”, and that is the time to convert a noble fellow as a worthless paralyzed one in the society. So such youth can be harmful and a burden for the society.
Continuously criticizing generates troubles for all members of family. It’s a common conduct of people that they become lawyers for their own matters but they adopt the tone of a judge to talk about others. If parents, relatives and teachers help children to build their confidence and guide them at every step of the early life then they can bring optimistic changings up in the society and children can follow the right path to lead a successful life.
Teenage is the time when children become adult and grow up, it’s very sensitive period for them. They feel new physical changings and follow the trending fashions. Occasionally boys are set free to act any right or wrong activity but girls are always forbidden to take many decisions. Especially in third-world countries girls are oppressed badly they don’t have any choice with their own will.
People destroy the future of kids by their violent attitude. Parents should understand the feelings of kids without any gender discrimination and fight for their right, so that no one can look down upon them. Self-confidence should be promoted to bring them out from the marshy land.
Parents should give up the bad attitude to their children and should ignore their mistakes. Love your children so that they can enjoy their life confidently.
